My top 10 favourite straight-shooters…..

Marci • March 31, 2012

A few years ago, I decided I’d had enough of other people’s crap.

 

You know what I mean – those people who spin tales just for the sake of it. They tell you what they think you want to hear instead of the truth and never really get to the point. Well, I’d had enough of it. From family and friends to business associates, I’d decided to make sure others around me were being straight and I was going to be straight with them, even when it was hard.

 

In honour of the decision, here is a list of my top 10 favourite straight-shooters and what they did to get there.

 

10. Eleanor Roosevelt – when she found out her husband had been unfaithful, Eleanor reinvented herself, becoming independent and the woman history recalls. She didn’t hold FDR’s infidelity over his head, instead she changed herself and even became his eyes and ears when he developed polio.

 

9. Alain Vigneault – in almost every interview, when asked what matters to him, the Vancouver Canucks’ coach stays focused on one thing – winning games. No matter what the press says or does, he stays focused on his purpose.

 

8. Whoopi Goldberg – She has had her dark moments, but Whoopi, like few others, remains in the public eye and continues to entertain without taking shots at her culture to do so.

 

7. Jane Goodall – Despite having worked with chimps since 1960, it wasn’t until 1986 that Goodall became exposed to the suffering of chimps in captivity. She continued her research, but added a different element to ensure the world stood up and paid attention.

 

6. Margaret Thatcher – Love her or hate her (and there are many in both camps) she stuck to her beliefs of what had to be done to get England through a very difficult period in time. She didn’t get caught up in what was being said about her and she continued to show up for work for 11 years.

 

5. Svend Robinson – He stole a ring from an auction. Not good. But it was what he did after stealing the ring that lands him on my list. He could have kept the ring and never spoken a word. He could have returned it anonymously. What he did was publicly confess to taking it, ending his political career – but he did the right thing in the end, even knowing what the consequences would be.

 

4. Brooke Shields – Back when famous people kept their emotions private, after recovering from post-partum depression, Shields made her battle with the condition very public, in the hopes of helping others.

 

3. Johnny Carson – In 1967, Carson had the opportunity to shut up and fly right or challenge convention. He went up against NBC during a strike and won the freedom over his show – paving the way for future performers.

 

2. Ellen DeGeneres – Coming from a conservative family, Ellen’s “coming out” to her mother, friends and fans was a challenge each time she faced it. Now, she is a powerful role model for both gay and non-gay individuals to learn about acceptance.

 

1. Donald Trump – Here’s another person that has followers in both the ‘love’ and ‘hate’ camps. One thing I admire him for is coming back, perhaps a bit humbled, after the early 1990s collapse of his empire. Sure he’s obnoxious and pretentious, but he never denies the pains that got him there.

 

I’d like to add one more to the list – Marci Deane. No, I’ve never publicly had a defining moment of truth like these folks, but I’ve been honest with people when it’s been hard. I’ve had times when I’ve told potential clients to stay with their bank because that was the best option for them. I recently told other potential clients to not buy now because it would be too much of a strain on their budget.

 

The truth is far more important to me than making a deal.

 

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Wait! Are You Really Ready to Buy That Home?

By Marci Deane • January 21, 2026
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By Marci Deane • January 14, 2026
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By Marci Deane • January 7, 2026
Cashback Mortgages: Are They Worth It? Here’s What You Need to Know If you’ve been exploring mortgage options and come across the term cashback mortgage , you might be wondering what exactly it means—and whether it’s a smart move. Let’s break it down in simple terms. What Is a Cashback Mortgage? A cashback mortgage is just like a regular mortgage—but with one extra feature: you receive a lump sum of cash when the mortgage closes . This cash is typically: A fixed amount , or A percentage of the total mortgage , usually between 1% and 7% , depending on your mortgage term and lender. The money is tax-free and paid directly to you on closing day. What Can You Use the Cashback For? There are no restrictions on how you use the funds. Here are some common uses: Covering closing costs Buying new furniture Renovations or home upgrades Paying off high-interest debt Boosting your cashflow during a tight transition Whether it’s to help you settle in or catch up financially, cashback can offer a helpful buffer— but it comes at a cost . The True Cost of a Cashback Mortgage Here’s the part many people overlook: cashback mortgages come with higher interest rates than standard mortgages. Why? Because the lender is essentially advancing you a small loan upfront—and they’re going to make that money back (and then some) through your mortgage payments. So while the upfront cash feels like a bonus, you’ll pay more in interest over time to have that convenience. Breaking Down the Numbers It’s hard to give a blanket answer about how much more you’ll pay since it depends on: Your interest rate The cashback amount The mortgage term Your payment schedule This is why it’s important to run the numbers with a mortgage professional who can help you compare this option with others based on your personal financial situation. Are You Eligible for a Cashback Mortgage? Not everyone qualifies. Cashback mortgages generally come with stricter requirements . Lenders often want to see: Excellent credit history Strong, stable income Low debt-to-income ratio If your mortgage file includes anything “outside the box”—like being self-employed or recently changing jobs—qualifying for a cashback mortgage might be tough. What If You Need to Break the Mortgage? This is one of the biggest risks with cashback mortgages. If your circumstances change and you need to break your mortgage early, you could be on the hook for: Paying back some or all of the cashback you received, and A prepayment penalty (typically the interest rate differential or 3 months’ interest—whichever is higher) That can be a very expensive combination. So if there’s even a chance you might need to sell, refinance, or move before your term is up, a cashback mortgage might not be the best fit. Should You Consider a Cashback Mortgage? Maybe—but only with eyes wide open. Cashback mortgages can be helpful in the right scenario, but they’re not free money. They’re a lending tool that benefits the lender , and the key is knowing exactly what you’re agreeing to. Final Thoughts: Talk to an Expert First Choosing the right mortgage isn’t just about the lowest rate or the biggest perk—it’s about making a choice that fits your whole financial picture. If you’re considering a cashback mortgage, or just want to explore all your options, let’s talk. As an independent mortgage professional , I can help you weigh the pros and cons of various products, so you can make a confident, informed decision. Have questions? I’d be happy to help—reach out anytime.